Friday, December 5, 2008

Women make no sense.

"Frienemies", from the movie Mean Girls, best describes a lot of ladies, as well as a book called Tripping The Prom Queen. I usually try not to generalize, but I am an avid observer of human behavior and seems to me some women are not happy for other women. This phenomenon makes me sad. Examples of this can range anywhere from jobs, job promotions "ya know what she did to get that", child rearing "she is a bad mother", homes "a gnome, get some class (I actually like gnomes)". I'll admit sometimes I'm a hater too no one is perfect, and it is learned behavior. That being said women need to support one another in all those aspects and more. Men do not know the obstacles or judgements women face day in and day out. Therefore they can not support in the same fashion. Women understand other women and it should be seen as an opportunity to be a friend or a understanding co worker, a good neighbor etc.. Women join me, stand up and be each others advocates and supporters. Be the change you wish to see in the world. Thank you Ganghi. I think I'll start a group for women who want to support each other. Not a support group that is so 80's. I'm talking about a group of supporters to help cheer on all our female successes.

1 comment:

  1. Thanks, I appreciate this blog. I feel the same way. I know some very unsupportive women. Also, what about the its all about me women? Those are even worse! And sure I am not perfect either,but,at least I recognize when I am wrong and I try to do better the next time. So tell me, what do I have to do to become a member of this new club? Sign me up Sister!

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